Your Kids are Not Monsters

Your Kids are Not Monsters

   If you are having hard times with your kids, don't give up. This is only showing that you love your kids and care for them so much. Give yourself a clap that you are certainly one of the great parents.    

Bear in your mind that your kids don't want to be a monster in your eyes though. They too are always looking for ways to please you. But they are too young to know how. Well, what you can do is to teach them in many ways and at all time.    

In this decade, our kids are expose to too much technology that make them confuse and misbehave. They don't even know what are the things they shan't do as those are what showing on the television. What they will normally ask you is "Why can't I do that?" I know many of you will be on fire hearing this question as you think they are challenging you. But to my opinion, they just asking you to teach them to differentiate between what in the media and on your mind or in the order of this world.      

You can absolutely bring them to all the positive places. For example the church, the playground and the library. Don't expose them to the media too early as they don't know what is real and what is fake. At a young age, they can imitate many things that they see. It is better to teach them more knowledge from the books and some social skills then they can think more positively.

   They learn the fastest through books, stories,colorful pictures, songs and poems too. And they definitely like to chat with you. It is better to develop their language skills at early age than to let them sit in front of the television one whole day. When you chat with them a lot, they can communicate with you better. You are very important to help them express what they want to say correctly and in good manners.   

   As they are learning mostly from you, you shall set a good example to them. Don't you want to ruin their thoughts with bad words and bad behaviors that influence them throughout their lives? Well think deeply, these will influence your live too, you will see it when you are old.    

Every parents can have good kids when you spent valuable time with them. Talk often to them regarding values you want to in put to them. You can refer to the bible that your kids know it is from God. Well, that is certainly a serious  matter to them too. They know they shan't break God's rules in any case. Well, you can then leave it to God when you are not around with them.